Under no circumstances should you date someone who is married or has a partner.
This also rules out people who have just separated, have been long term separated with no actual divorce on the horizon, and who are not over their ex. You are not a buffer/emotional airbag. You’re not someone to pass time with while they figure out what they do and don’t want, and the moment that you involve yourself in any of the above situations, the person knows that they don’t really have to… do anything.
If they lie to you and let you think they’re single, abort mission immediately! GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP!
You have to stop acting like every guy could be the one and like there’s a fire or a spark between the two of you – there isn’t. You deserve better than someone’s half hearted interest and there is no excuse for any man keeping you waiting around.
And never, ever, ever, ever, ever, wait around for someone to decide whether they want a relationship with you. Don’t demean yourself!
DON’T BE SOMEONE’S SECRET!
Call me at 361-442-2211. Let us help you de-triangulate out of an unhealthy relationship. Empowerment, Support and Individualized Therapy for you.
This is Therapist Ann Marie Godines LPC, and National Certified Counselor at Because the Family Matters located at 4949 Everhart Rd. STE 107. Our office number is 361-442-2211 and after hours number is 361-779-9898. E-THERAPY (Skype and Facebook Video) is offered nationwide. We offer an affordable family income sliding scale and my heart is to never let money keep someone from receiving therapy, therefore we work around everyone’s financial situation. We do not turn anyone away from therapy. #btfmcounseling